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What do you say to a nervous child?

Let kids know you understand. Say it's okay to feel how they feel. Tell them their feelings are normal. Try not to say, "There's nothing to worry about." This can make kids think they shouldn't feel the way they do.
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What do you say when a child is nervous?

“It's scary AND…” Acknowledge your child's fear without making it even more frightening by using the word “AND.” After the word “and” you can add phrases like, “You are safe.” or “You've conquered this fear before.” or “You have a plan.” This models an internal dialogue your child can use next time they are feeling ...
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How do you comfort an anxious child?

How to help your child or young person manage their anxiety
  1. In a calm moment, talk about their anxiety. ...
  2. Think together about what makes them feel anxious. ...
  3. Help your child to recognise when they're anxious. ...
  4. Think together about activities that help. ...
  5. Try mindful activities that help us to relax.
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How do you reassure an anxious child?

Other ways to ease anxiety in children
  1. teach your child to recognise signs of anxiety in themselves.
  2. encourage your child to manage their anxiety and ask for help when they need it.
  3. children of all ages find routines reassuring, so try to stick to regular daily routines where possible.
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What is the 3 3 3 rule for anxiety children?

For parents of younger children: help them 'come back to earth' from spiraling thoughts with the 3 – 3 – 3 rule. Ask your child to name 3 things they can see, identify 3 sounds they can hear, and move 3 different parts of their bodies.
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Children's Anxiety: 3 Ways to Help Your Anxious Child

What are the three C's for anxiety?

The Three C's for Anxiety. When it comes to coping with anxiety, the three C's - Calm Techniques, Coping Strategies, and Communication Skills - can be powerful tools in managing and reducing anxiety symptoms.
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What are the 3 P's of anxiety?

The 3 P's stand for Pervasiveness, Permanence and Personalisation.
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What not to do with a child with anxiety?

Here are pointers for helping kids cope with anxiety without reinforcing it.
  1. Don't try to eliminate anxiety. ...
  2. Don't avoid things just because they make a child anxious. ...
  3. Express positive — but realistic — expectations. ...
  4. Respect their feelings, but don't empower them. ...
  5. Don't ask leading questions.
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What triggers anxiety in a child?

Things that happen in a child's life can be stressful and difficult to cope with. Loss, serious illness, death of a loved one, violence, or abuse can lead some kids to become anxious. Learned behaviors. Growing up in a family where others are fearful or anxious also can "teach" a child to be afraid too.
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How do I build my child's confidence?

How Does Self-Esteem Develop?
  1. make progress toward a goal.
  2. learn things at school and get good grades.
  3. make friends and get along.
  4. do favorite activities, like music, sports, art, cooking, tech skills.
  5. help, give, or be kind.
  6. try hard at something and get praised.
  7. feel understood and accepted.
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What not to say to a child with anxiety?

10 Things Never to Say to Your Anxious Child
  • Don't worry. You can't will away your child's anxiety by telling him not to worry. ...
  • It's no big deal. ...
  • You'll be fine. ...
  • There's nothing to be afraid of. ...
  • You just need to sleep more! ...
  • I'll do it. ...
  • It's all in your head. ...
  • Hurry up!
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How can I treat my child's anxiety naturally?

What Are Some Child Anxiety Treatments At Home?
  1. Encourage your child to share their worries without judgment.
  2. Teach them deep breathing and mindfulness exercises for calming.
  3. Stick to a consistent daily schedule to provide stability.
  4. Promote balanced nutrition, regular exercise, and enough sleep.
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What can I say to calm my nerves?

7 positive affirmations to cope with intense fear or panic attacks
  • “I am safe.”
  • “I am brave.”
  • “I can move past this moment.”
  • “I am in charge.”
  • “As I breathe, I am calm and relaxed.”
  • “I have survived my anxiety before. I will survive it now.”
  • “My body is my ally.”
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What do you say to calm a nervous person?

Let them know you want to help:
  • “I'm here to talk and to listen”
  • “I want to know if you're really okay”
  • “I'm worried that you're struggling”
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How can I help my 8 year old with anxiety?

Do:
  1. Identify triggers. A helpful first step is for you and your children to become aware of and recognize what causes them to feel intense anxiety. ...
  2. Validate and empathize. ...
  3. Challenge unhelpful thinking. ...
  4. Practice deep breathing. ...
  5. Break down tasks. ...
  6. Role-play. ...
  7. Build overall confidence. ...
  8. Label emotions as bad.
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Do children grow out of anxiety?

Usually, children grow out of their fears but sometimes they persist as the child grows up - there are plenty of adults who are anxious about spiders or dogs. Only when such fears stop your child doing ordinary activities is there real cause for concern.
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How do you treat anxiety in a 5 year old?

In fact, for children with mild to moderate anxiety, the recommended treatment is CBT. For children with severe anxiety, experts recommend CBT plus medication. And unlike taking medication alone, therapy gives children the tools to manage the anxiety themselves, now and in the future.
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What is the 333 rule for anxiety?

It's an easy technique to remember and use in the moment, it's available to us the majority of the time, and it can be a simple strategy to help us focus and ground when anxiety overwhelms. Put simply, you name three things you can see, name three things you can hear, and move three different body parts.
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Should I force my anxious child to attend school?

Avoid forcing your child to go to school.

Try not to shout, tell them off or force them into school. Making them go in without changing anything is likely to make their anxiety worse in the long-term. Even though they might physically get to school, they probably won't be in a position to learn either.
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What is anxiety child friendly?

Here are a few examples of the ways I've defined anxiety for the children I've worked with. “For you, anxiety means… “Your brain is built in a way that makes you very attentive to others' needs, and a great friend! It also may mean that sometimes you may focus more on other people's opinions than your own.”
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What are the 5 C's of anxiety?

The 5Cs are competence, confidence, character, caring, and connection. The anxiety dimensions are Social anxiety, Physical symptoms, Separation anxiety, and Harm avoidance.
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What are the 4 levels of anxiety?

Levels of anxiety can be influenced by personality, coping strategies, life experiences, and gender. Anxiety levels are typically classified by the level of distress and impairment experienced into four categories: mild anxiety, moderate anxiety, severe anxiety and panic level anxiety.
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Which of the following is a primary symptom of anxiety?

Common anxiety signs and symptoms include: Feeling nervous, restless or tense. Having a sense of impending danger, panic or doom. Having an increased heart rate.
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What is the 54321 rule for anxiety?

The 54321 (or 5, 4, 3, 2, 1) method is a grounding exercise designed to manage acute stress and reduce anxiety. It involves identifying 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste.
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What causes anxiety?

Difficult experiences in childhood, adolescence or adulthood are a common trigger for anxiety problems. Going through stress and trauma when you're very young is likely to have a particularly big impact. Experiences which can trigger anxiety problems include things like: physical or emotional abuse.
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