Which Enneagram hates failure?

Enneagram 3 Personality Traits People who identify as the Type 3 often adapt to fit different settings very naturally, which can may lead to playing a character rather than being themselves. The basic fear of the Enneagram Type 3 is failure and worthlessness.

What Enneagram is afraid of being trapped?

At their worst, Sevens' fear of being trapped in pain or a boring routine make it hard for them to settle down, focus, or honestly address problems.

Which Enneagram feels worthless?

Type 3: The Performer / Achiever

“I feel worthless, but if I can just get enough validation, I'll finally feel valuable!”

Which Enneagram has a fear of being alone?

Deepest Fear: Twos fear being alone and unloved, and cope with this fear by taking care of others and making themselves central to other people's lives.

Which Enneagram fears being forgotten?

Enneagram Type 3 Overview

Achiever types wither outside the spotlight, where their fear of being forgotten can make unhealthy threes power-hungry and vengeful.

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Which Enneagram lacks empathy?

Both Type Three and Type Seven avoid feeling empathy for other people because they believe it interferes with their goals.

Which Enneagram is the most emotionless?

Fives are the least emotional type in general, experiencing low levels of each of the emotions. While Fives disconnect from feelings, they are actually more adept at avoiding situations where they know they would experience fear, or other strong emotions.

Which Enneagram hates rejection?

Specific to the Enneagram Type 4's fear of being flawed is their fear of rejection. Rejection tends to make Type 4s feel utterly worthless. If someone rejects them, it can make them hurt for the longest time.

Which Enneagram is most socially awkward?

The Enneagram 4 is uncomfortable in social settings because they feel misunderstood or lonesome. While their friends or acquaintances are talking, Type 4s often go into their heads, disappearing from all cognizant conversation, trying to grapple with why they feel so out of place.

Which Enneagram is most clingy?

Enneagram Type 2 – Helper

This type tends to become more clingy the more they are rejected or ignored. They have high expectations of themselves and others, so can be very disappointed if their efforts aren't rewarded enough.

Which Enneagram is brutally honest?

Enneagram 8s are brutally honest and they famously find it impossible to hide their feelings.

Which Enneagram hates being ignored?

While Nines will go out of their way to accommodate others and downplay their own needs, setting themselves up to be overlooked, Nines dislike being ignored.

Which Enneagram was neglected?

Enneagram Five

And the Five child felt neglected. Not getting enough of what they needed led them to be self-sufficient, learning to get by on less by retreating into their heads and protecting their meager resources.

Which Enneagram pushes people away?

Fours often feel like no one will truly be able to ever understand them, but they also desperately wish that people would try to connect with them. This give-and-take mentality creates dynamic relationships where Fours often push people away to test them; however, their push is actually a subconscious pull.

Which Enneagram is repressed anger?

Type Nines hate being angry

Hidden within the Enneagram Nine's pattern of conflict avoidance is a reluctance to deal with unacceptable emotions, most specifically anger. They hate getting caught up in encounters that might cause them to be overly harsh, loud, aggressive or disagreeable.

What Enneagram avoids pain?

Enneagram Sevens have the motivational need to experience life to the fullest and avoid pain. Sevens value a sense of freedom and focus on optimism, being inspired and taking opportunities as they present themselves. Sevens approach life as an adventure and appreciate being playful and spontaneous.

Which Enneagram works hardest?

Enneagram Ones are known as hard workers. They carry around a belief that they must be responsible and that requires putting work before play.

Which Enneagram is most intimidating?

Enneagram Type 8 in Brief

Eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating.

What Enneagram type is most likeable?

Another Enneagram type commonly viewed as "nice" is Type 9, the Peacemaker. Type 9s are characterized by their easygoing and agreeable nature, as well as their desire to maintain harmony and avoid conflict. They often put the needs of others before their own, and they are skilled at seeing different perspectives.

Which Enneagram can't make decisions?

Decision making is tough for Type Nines. Because they possess the ability to see all sides of an issue, it can be difficult for them to make a choice. Instead, they default to letting someone else make the decision… or they make no decision, which is a choice in its own way.

Which Enneagram hates making decisions?

Sixes: The Loyalists

Sixes fear making their own decisions because they worry so much about all the “what ifs?” that they don't trust their own intuition, and would prefer to follow the guidance of others¹.

What is the least patient Enneagram?

Enneagram Threes

Threes are among the least patient of the 9 enneagram types. If someone takes up too much time, the Three's impatience sets in. If the Three doesn't understand something well enough, impatience shows up. If there is work to do, impatience appears.

Which Enneagram is the most blunt?

Enneagram Type 8 At Their Best

They tend to make quick “gut” decisions, and tell it the way they see it, often being direct and blunt. They can be highly confrontative and will fight for what they believe.

Which Enneagram is attractive?

Enneagram Type 3 in Brief

Threes are self-assured, attractive, and charming. Ambitious, competent, and energetic, they can also be status-conscious and highly driven for advancement.

Which Enneagram is quiet?

Type Fives are the most introverted of the Enneagram types, in the sense that they direct the most focus and energy inward. Rather than focusing on relationships, the Five's primary focus is on gaining knowledge.