Why can't you talk about sororities?

It is forbidden to reveal secret rituals and or traditions of the sisterhood. Practically speaking by keeping some things members only it allows members to identify each other with confidence. There are some aspects of Greek life that are necessarily kept private for the benefit of members and the organizations.

Why do you have to be discreet about joining a sorority?

Because Fraternities and Sororities like to keep their secrets intact. It's what makes people in college wanting to join their org.

What are the silence rules for sororities?

Strict silence is enforced between the time of the last preference event until the end of Bid Day. Any contact made between a sorority member (alumna or active) is strictly forbidden and will lead to dismissal from the recruitment process. This includes alumnae relatives.

What not to talk about during sorority rush?

Why are sororities not allowed to party?

Sororities caught breaking the rule receive fines or risk probation. A common urban legend contends that the rule was necessitated by old laws that defined dozens of women living and drinking under one roof as a brothel. The real reason is more practical: It's way, way cheaper to insure dry sororities.

TOP SECRETS to Stand Out in Greek Fraternity/Sorority Interview (RUSH) | NPHC advice

Why are sororities so strict?

It is forbidden to reveal secret rituals and or traditions of the sisterhood. Practically speaking by keeping some things members only it allows members to identify each other with confidence. There are some aspects of Greek life that are necessarily kept private for the benefit of members and the organizations.

Are sorority girls allowed to drink?

The only way for a sorority to host a party with alcohol is to co-host with a fraternity or to use a third-party vendor (like a bar or party venue), both of which take members out of the safety of their homes.

What are the 5 B's of sororities?

"Avoid bringing up the five 'B Words': Boys, Ballots, Booze, Beliefs, and Bucks."

Do sororities look at your Instagram?

Sororities, and even future employers, can see what you post, so you want to make sure that what you are posting is 100% appropriate. This means NO alcohol, NO revealing photos and NO obscene language. Your grandma does NOT want to see that!

What are the 5 B's sorority?

Sloan Anderson, who calls her coaching program "Crush," offered advice on how to nail small talk during the open house, which includes staying away from "the five Bs": boys (do not discuss fraternities), booze (no alcohol), Bible (religion), bucks (money) and Biden (a.k.a. politics).

Can you just quit a sorority?

If you do decide to leave, be prepared for a lengthy process that could take a bit of time. “Leaving is very specific to each organization,” says Johnson. Work with sorority leadership, your house mom or your school's Greek Council to find out exactly how to disaffiliate.

What actually happens in a sorority?

Sororities are frequently involved in putting together charitable drives and causes, as well as working with other organizations in the community, including fraternities. Sorority sisterhood is considered a big responsibility and time commitment, and allegiance to sorority identity is highly valued.

Do sororities choose based on looks?

Stereotypically, sorority rush and sorority culture place great emphasis on beauty ideals. Some sororities use physical appearance to decide whether someone qualifies for membership due to sorority members having a short window to meet and converse with potential new members.

Can you join aka if you're white?

Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated^® does not discriminate in its membership selection practices on the basis of race, color, age, ethnicity, national origin, religious affiliation, sexual orientation, creed, marital status or disability.

Why do girls want to join a sorority?

For many women, Sorority offers them this safe and supportive space. Many sorority members call this sisterhood. Sisterhood is a feeling of purpose and belonging. It is feeling safe to be yourself and speak your mind in a room full of women and still feel completely supported.

What are cons of joining a sorority?

Why are sororities so private?

It is forbidden to reveal secret rituals and or traditions of the sisterhood. Practically speaking by keeping some things members only it allows members to identify each other with confidence. There are some aspects of Greek life that are necessarily kept private for the benefit of members and the organizations.

Should I join a sorority if I'm shy?

I've seen some introverted members but it all comes down to selling yourself. If you can bond (Socializing) with most of the members during Rush Week, you might get an invitation. Generally, if you're introverted, it's going to be hard to join a Greek org. Of course you can.

How do sororities pick who they want?

After each conversation, members who spoke to you will rate their time with you. They will look for how you carry yourself, your accomplishments and other conversational wins. The chapter will then make the list on who will be invited back based on those rankings!

What sorority is Kourtney Kardashian in?

Kourtney Kardashian - Alpha Phi.

What is the number 1 sorority?

The largest sorority by membership is Chi Omega, also called “Chi O,” and the largest sorority by active chapters is Alpha Omicron Pi, or “A O Pi” for short.

What is Beyonce sorority?

Beyonce Delta Kappa Sorority,inc. @BDKNATIONALSINC. Beyonce Delta Kappa was founded on the principles of black excellence unity and power to educate empower and embrace the world.

Can guys sleep in sororities?

I know it is the norm to have women sleep over at a fraternity house, but it is unlikely to have men sleepover at a sorority house.

Can sorority girls have boyfriends?

Absolutely. There are so many beautiful, inside and out, sorority women who date many great guys who are not in fraternities. Many girls from all sororities date 'independents' so they could have some privacy in their relationship for one thing.

Can I date someone in my sorority?

If you happen to stumble across romance in your own sorority, don't be afraid to embrace it. However, always remember why you joined a sorority in the first place: the women around you should be viewed as sisters first and potential romantic partners last.